The Syndrome of the child emperor or child tyrant appears every time at younger ages, it is alarming!
Unfortunately, more and more children suffer from the so-called emperor syndrome. This syndrome refers to those children and adolescents who abuse their parents without the slightest regret. In addition to increasing the number of tyrant children, the most worrying thing is that this syndrome manifests itself at an increasingly early age. The mother is usually the great victim of such behavior and over time this mistreatment and abuse spreads to other members of the family. Experts on the subject point to a series of reasons why a child can become a tyrant.
LACK OF DEDICATION FROM PARENTS
There are many parents today who hardly spend time with their children . These parents try to compensate for this absence by giving their children all kinds of whims. The child becomes a true spoiled since he has everything and does not know how to appreciate what surrounds him. Despite having everything, he lacks a series of really important values in any child, such as parental love, the importance of family or respect.
THERE ARE NO RIGHTS OR DUTIES
A consequence of the previous cause is the fact that the education received from the parents is not adequate. The child will grow up with the absence of rules, which over time will become impunity on the part of the child. s The minor must have a series of rights and duties while under the authority of their parents and show respect for them. It is normal for the child, not having any kind of rules at home, to feel superior and to become a tyrant in front of his parents .
TO BE AN ONLY CHILD
If the parents know how to educate him as he should be, not having siblings is not a reason why the minor should become a tyrant. The problem is that on many occasions the fact of being an only child causes a very large overprotection on the part of the parents, turning their child into a capricious child. It is proven that many of the children who suffer from Emperor syndrome are only children.
HOW TO ACT BEFORE A TYRANT SON
Experts on the subject explain that emperor syndrome is an educational dysfunction that luckily can be corrected and treated. For this they propose 3 different forms of action:
- The first thing to do is to maximize the child’s emotional intelligence . This is really important when the child manages to empathize with others and realize the importance of values such as friendship, respect or trust.
- Parents should be an example for their children, so it is essential to dialogue at all times and avoid yelling and fighting inside the house.
- Parents must establish a series of rules within the home so that the child does not resort to violence or deception as a general normal. With these rules, the minor becomes much more responsible and the parents do not lose an iota of authority.
The key, therefore, when it comes to preventing children from becoming tyrants, lies in the education they receive at home. In this way children grow up respecting their parents and others. A tyrant child is made due to the distance that separates them from their parents and the lack of affection they receive from their parents. The family must be a pineapple and the child must feel as loved as possible.
Dr. Tabriella Perivolaris, Sara's mother and fan of fashion, beauty, motherhood, among others, about the female universe. Since 2018 she has been working as a copywriter, always bringing to her articles a little of her experience and experience as a mother and woman.