How to Set Norms for Hyperactive Children
Find out how you can successfully set standards for hyperactive kids, life will be easier for everyone!
Educating your children is not an easy task . Since the arrival of the baby at home, your life will change completely and there will be many things that you will have to take into account from the birth of your child. You will have more or less hard times, but having your baby by your side will make you gradually learn to manage these new emotions and you can give your child the best of you.
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EDUCATIONAL PROBLEMS IN HYPERACTIVE CHILDREN
As the years go by, you will realize that education is much more complicated than you imagined. Surely you want to give your child the best, but you will be aware that a good education is the basis and pillar for the child to learn to relate correctly with parents, other members of the family and with the world in general.
Therefore, you must agree with your partner when deciding what you consider basic in education and to be, most of the time because it will always be impossible, in agreement. In this way the child will understand when he is not doing something well and will be able to modify his behavior as you wish. Remember that communication, respect, patience and perseverance will be the keys to giving him a good education .
Techniques such as threats or blackmail can be counterproductive, since if you do not comply with the threats the child will stop behaving well, since their actions have no consequences, and if you comply with them you may generate a bad relationship between you. As for blackmail, the child will only behave well to earn a reward and may want it to be higher each time. So, you will not be understanding why you should not misbehave or have a certain behavior, but will stop doing it for the prize.
Therefore, you will have to be patient and be very constant . Only in this way can you try to make your children understand why you do not want them to carry out certain actions or say certain things. In this way they will know that what they are doing is not right and they can internalize these concepts, getting a good education and improving their behavior, progressively, in the future.
However, it is not always as easy as it sounds, since not all children are the same . Nowadays, the issue of hyperactivity is becoming more and more aware . Many children suffer from this disorder that is not always identified in time and many parents do not know how to manage. When it is determined what happens to the child, an action plan can be taken according to their needs and ensure that they have a good education at home, as well as at school, as they deserve.
Find out what hyperactivity is in children and how to set standards so that they can get a good education from you, for the sake of their current relationships and for their future.
WHAT IS HYPERACTIVITY?
The ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) is a disorder that affects children commonly called Hyperactive them. They have great difficulty concentrating, waiting their turn, staying still, or listening. For many years it has been believed that these children were nervous and that they should be the toughest teachers and parents with them as long as they paid attention, stayed quiet, and modified their behaviors.
However, hyperactive children do not behave in this way because they want to. Due to their disorder, they cannot avoid being in constant motion and have great difficulty concentrating and paying attention . For this reason, it is normal that their performance in school is not good, because the current educational system is based on listening, rather than talking, and being still, something that hyperactive children find very difficult.
By being aware of this attention deficit, these children may become discouraged and discouraged with studies and school in general, so it is essential to take them to a health professional as soon as possible so that they can determine if they have ADHD and how to treat him so that he can lead a normal life and feel comfortable in school, continuing his studies, and getting the good education he deserves.
RULES FOR HYPERACTIVE CHILDREN AT HOME
At home you will notice that he has the same behaviors as at school, that is, that it is difficult for him to listen, pay attention or stay still. Therefore, the rules that you have used with your other children or that you think are the most appropriate may not work with a hyperactive child. So, you will have to arm yourself with patience and modify your thinking and acting , so that you can be able to set rules for the hyperactive child and get him to act the way you want.
A children’s point chart can be a very good norm-setting tool for hyperactive children. Remember that a good diet, exercise and adequate rest will help the child to manage his hyperactivity . Following the therapy and medication that the doctor will have prescribed, his behavior will improve markedly, but you must be patient and constant, because education will require more time and effort for a hyperactive child. Do not hesitate to consult a professional about more rules and techniques to improve the education of the hyperactive child at home, giving him responsibilities like other children and obtaining his rewards when he does everything correctly.
Dr. Tabriella Perivolaris, Sara's mother and fan of fashion, beauty, motherhood, among others, about the female universe. Since 2018 she has been working as a copywriter, always bringing to her articles a little of her experience and experience as a mother and woman.