Beware of these mistakes, you could endanger your family!

Without realizing it, life goes by and sometimes we make mistakes that instead of teaching us to improve, we let them keep appearing again and again in life. These mistakes, if not resolved, can even jeopardize the emotional stability of your family. For this reason, the time has come for you to start learning from them, and to change for the better! Because you and your family deserve to live together in absolute happiness and put the tensions aside forever.

1. CHANGE YOUR PARTNER OR YOUR CHILDREN

You married your partner because you were in love, right? If that’s the case, there will never be a good reason to try to change you. Besides, people are not changed … It is your decision to accept him as he is or not. The adults do not change dramatically, so it is better to accept your partner and love him as he is, with its flaws and virtues.

The same thing happens with your children … They have grown up with you! And they have learned everything from you. If you see something in your children that you don’t like, instead of trying to change them, reflect on what it is that has made them that way. This is an inside job for you to do!

2. LET YOUR EMOTIONS WIN

Do not misunderstand this point, because emotions always win, that is, they should be your teachers and teach you that if you feel in a specific way, it will always be for something. You will need to know why you feel that way so that you can figure out whether or not you have to change something in your life to find emotional balance again.

But when it is the intense and negative emotions that take over the situation, then things change for the worse. Being aggressive or yelling will not help you or your family resolve problems or differences of opinion. The best way to resolve conflicts is to be rational and speak things calmly and with mutual respect .

3. DON’T TALK ABOUT IMPORTANT THINGS

Nobody likes to talk about difficult topics, such as financial matters, the death of a loved one, or very emotional ones. On the other hand, it is essential that in a family there is good communication both with the partner and with the children. It is necessary to sit down to talk whenever necessary, to hold family meetings to improve communication between everyone.

4. ARGUING FOR BANALITIES

Arguing over trivialities occurs when you don’t know how to choose your battles wisely. Perhaps you discuss with your partner or with your children things that really are not important. Save energy for issues that are really important and what is not, keep it in the background. Be wise when choosing the battles within your home.

5. ACT LIKE YOU HAVE NO FAMILY

Many parents forget when they have children that they have a responsibility and that the family should be ranked number 1 in their daily responsibilities. They want to continue doing the same things they did before becoming parents, and although going out from time to time and having time to enjoy intimately as a couple is fine and healthy, it should not be forgotten that the responsibilities of being parents do not disappear or disappear. they must delegate to others . Your kids need you, not a babysitter while you go out to have fun.

Of course, you can have fun, but balancing family time and prioritizing them at all times.

6. BEING TOO PROUD

Pride kills relationships, also in the family. A sincere apology after a conflict will always be a positive thing … Instead allowing pride to occupy part of the family will only end in the destruction of your emotional ties. Don’t let pride get in the way of solving problems and express your love for them just the way you feel. Taking responsibility for your own actions is the best example you can set for your children.